tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post5482524004312688945..comments2023-10-29T04:01:18.634-07:00Comments on Tell Me What Another Is: Maiden, Mother, Cougar, CroneI AM ANOTHERhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-8573555824929620132011-04-23T06:13:46.488-07:002011-04-23T06:13:46.488-07:00If cougars knew they were sexy, these women would ...If cougars knew they were sexy, these women would not need to broadcast how they are "cougs" so everyone would know. A truly sexy woman, who is confident with herself, shows dignity and class. There is no need to label herself with such a term that is so mocked in society. A lot of young men are crude and make it clear they only have sex with "cougars" because it is easy and they really do not have to do anything for her. The comments regarding aging women are horrible. Why would any older woman want to set herself up. It is a double standard and a man's world but it is what it is. An older man is more desirable due to money and prestige in life. He does not have to 'try' so hard to get young women. They flock to older guys.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-71978333382061037482011-03-07T08:59:34.127-08:002011-03-07T08:59:34.127-08:00Great post. I'm one that does take exception ...Great post. I'm one that does take exception to the cougar label or any labels on women and their life stages. I think the labeling is part of the problem. Why can't I, like a man just be a woman? Why must I consistently be categorized? I am a 47 year old woman. Period. I'm vibrant, intelligent, and SEXY by any standard. I just want to continue expressing my individuality and living my life without there having to be a convenient label attached to it. The labels are the problem.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-4118673658403194642010-03-23T09:08:32.185-07:002010-03-23T09:08:32.185-07:00Well, this may well have to be the book I've b...Well, this may well have to be the book I've been working on...I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-59567351611725319952010-02-03T07:44:29.491-08:002010-02-03T07:44:29.491-08:00Thanks Cindy, Greenwoman and Pagan. Happy you appr...Thanks Cindy, Greenwoman and Pagan. Happy you appreciate the post. Good idea Pagan, I should check into that site.I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-67124140774611403272010-02-03T07:40:05.671-08:002010-02-03T07:40:05.671-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-819678580906462532010-01-29T22:00:10.103-08:002010-01-29T22:00:10.103-08:00This is wonderful. I find myself wishing you would...This is wonderful. I find myself wishing you would publish it somewhere where it would get more widely read. Witchvox, or ???Pagan Topologisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01611788563582362688noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-51841409492878243822010-01-27T07:51:16.707-08:002010-01-27T07:51:16.707-08:00A wonderful post lady...*smiles*
I think you are ...A wonderful post lady...*smiles*<br /><br />I think you are juicy sexy.Greenwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09595575183652183234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-5474833751576501482010-01-24T11:04:21.131-08:002010-01-24T11:04:21.131-08:00thanks dear very well thought out and it just crac...thanks dear very well thought out and it just cracks me up that people seem so ALARMED that we actually are enjoying ourselves.....silly buggersCindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02435026878502016599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-2759055357090995902010-01-23T15:49:40.429-08:002010-01-23T15:49:40.429-08:00ooh! I Love baby cougar...that feels so right. I&#...ooh! I Love baby cougar...that feels so right. I'm aware that some of the steps I am taking right now some others take a lot earlier, as is the way. Baby cougar I feel ready for ;)SisterJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02873624518389704137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-24611471356500430332010-01-23T14:40:23.497-08:002010-01-23T14:40:23.497-08:00Oh, and R., we can all come up with our own labels...Oh, and R., we can all come up with our own labels yah? I'm sure Cougar might not work for everyone. But she, and the phase she controls is real whatever we call her.I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-73947728006606998302010-01-23T14:38:18.656-08:002010-01-23T14:38:18.656-08:00Hey Gillette, R, and SisterJulia. Thanks for the ...Hey Gillette, R, and SisterJulia. Thanks for the kind words and I'm glad you resonate with the message. And SisterJulia, as I mentioned, I think these phases are very fluid and for whatever reasons (interesting contemplation though) you're in this stage maybe younger than some women. But I just picked the numbers 45-75 out of a hat really. I think I was entering into my cougar phase in my late 30's actually but I was a baby cougar. Is that a puma? Ha. I don't even know what the official age for a cougar is out in the mainstream culture and quite frankly I don't care. I will need to reflect on your question more...the looking forward...very interesting.I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-21745071436671651462010-01-23T13:35:43.249-08:002010-01-23T13:35:43.249-08:00It's ggod to see this post here today, I'v...It's ggod to see this post here today, I've been looking forward to reading your Cougar thoughts.<br /><br />I'm wondering why I am so strongly feeling this cougarness in myself, at forty with my youngest still only three yrs old. <br />Perhaps I'm in a rush with motherhood...or maybe it's my polyness...<br />Perhaps it's that mothers (especially stay at home ones) aren't supposed to be so sexual either.<br />May I ask...did you look forward, seeing and feeling the sexiness and power of each stage before you came to experience it yourself and through friends...or has each stages sexual/personal power only become clear to you once you were experiencing it?SisterJuliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02873624518389704137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-19262296780287738162010-01-23T11:43:55.277-08:002010-01-23T11:43:55.277-08:00Well, now, I've been waiting for this for ever...Well, now, I've been waiting for this for ever now! Wonderful post! This is exactly right. I'm loving this phase of my life, feeling the truth of what you've articulated. Awesome! You should write a book! It would be a best-seller. There's a lot of us out here. I'm really not fond of the word Cougar though, still. Not feeling it as an archetypal force like the other three. But the phase of life wow! I wouldn't trade or go back for anything. It's good here in quadrant 3!!Rnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-11827799326137209542010-01-23T09:04:23.432-08:002010-01-23T09:04:23.432-08:00Great post. Thanks for this. It articulates so wel...Great post. Thanks for this. It articulates so well much of what this stage is for us and speaks in support us all no matter what our choices. <br /><br />I think it a "must read" for all who "struggle" with this time of our lives, finding a new way. <br /><br />Bless you!!Moihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00937241708513207283noreply@blogger.com