tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post4920142770884648727..comments2023-10-29T04:01:18.634-07:00Comments on Tell Me What Another Is: Heaven On EarthI AM ANOTHERhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-69374924117444593602008-07-29T10:03:00.000-07:002008-07-29T10:03:00.000-07:00Hi Greenwoman,Good to hear from you. Well, I unde...Hi Greenwoman,<BR/><BR/>Good to hear from you. Well, I understand your reaction because I have a difficult time with lots of the Buddhist thought on sexuality and relationships. But this really works for me. He doesn't say there is no freedom in relationship, he just says it's very difficult. And in my experience, this is true. People struggle with relationship/sex/romance in a big big way. Talk about pain bodies! I've struggled with this myself so much in my life and I still do. My ego identification is huge in this arena and I think that's what Andrew Cohen is saying. Just the facts. The facts that most of us tend to struggle with this a lot and that's because relationsh creates so much attachment. I am a relationship person and I'm using my relationships as part of my path to freedom so I know it can work. For me it's the best way. But at the same time I find that I need to be careful as I also tend to get lost in relationships and caught up in the pain they can create do to the attachment. I am seeking enlightenment and also the personal intimacy and sexual pleasure and what Andrew has to say about attachment is what I've learned. Doing relationship without attachment is a challenge. Loving without attachment, having sex without attachment. Wow, there's the rub. Polyamory teaches me a lot.I AM ANOTHERhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00882623359526462907noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-691912277439597451.post-41043423098916574422008-07-29T09:06:00.000-07:002008-07-29T09:06:00.000-07:00Hmmm...I didn't get far into the description of th...Hmmm...I didn't get far into the description of the book. Not sure why this one turned me away. I guess that I don't like the idea that there's no freedom in relationship.<BR/><BR/>I hope you are well. Its been a busy month of travel and self inquiry for me, but I'm venturing out of the cave for visit with my friends now. *smiles* I hope you are well and all recovered from your injuries early this month and last.Greenwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09595575183652183234noreply@blogger.com